A Letter of Closure to Anyone who was ever Ghosted—from a Ghoster.
Updated: Oct 28, 2022
Dear you who’s been ghosted,
I’m worried that this might come off the wrong way.
I’m worried that you will refuse the warnings
and ping pong what I want you to internalize back to me.
I am not your opponent. This doesn’t have to feel like a game. There are no rules here.
I speak on behalf of all ghosters;
we come from different mental spaces and intentions, but they’re rarely about you.
In fact, the external result
— the evidence that we haven’t answered you in a while —
is the only concrete attribute we all have in common.
Have you ever ignored a problem, hoping it will go away?
June 2, 2020
Hey
June 9, 2020 Hey