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A Letter of Closure to Anyone who was ever Ghosted—from a Ghoster.

Updated: Oct 28, 2022

Dear you who’s been ghosted,

I’m worried that this might come off the wrong way.

I’m worried that you will refuse the warnings

and ping pong what I want you to internalize back to me.

I am not your opponent. This doesn’t have to feel like a game. There are no rules here.

I speak on behalf of all ghosters;

we come from different mental spaces and intentions, but they’re rarely about you.

In fact, the external result

— the evidence that we haven’t answered you in a while —

is the only concrete attribute we all have in common.

Have you ever ignored a problem, hoping it will go away?

June 2, 2020


June 9, 2020 Hey